Ask a therapist — and mother of seven—how to prioritize
QUESTION: My girlfriend is upset that I put my kids before her. I’m doing the right thing, right?

First, congratulations on being a stand-up parent. There aren’t enough of you in the world, so round of applause. But are you entirely right to put your kids first? Let me ask you a few questions, because the answer’s not as simple as you might think.